Do you know how to deal with people?

If such question were asked during interview, most of us with prior preparation could answer well. But it's easier to say than do. In reality, how often we feel frustrated for all sorts of interpersonal problems? Difference in opinions, values or even personalities could cause incomprehension of friends' action and further separation.

Sometimes you could be driven mad just because you don't know why could they do this. Sadly, there's no way you could understand fully different beliefs of different people. Nor could you correctly attributes all of their actions to a certain cause. Because everyone, including you is a complex person. Hence the key in dealing with people is not judgement (to judge whether their actions are right or wrong from your own set of belief), but tolerance and empathy.

If you view someone as devil, you would notice some of his/her strength; if you view someone as angel, you would notice some of his/her weakness. None of us is perfect. So be more tolerant to allows others rooms for improvement, life's never without a mistake.

With my mind machine turning on now, I starts to become more and more tolerant in dealing with peoples, as I were before. I feel like it's a round trip of journey of myself. I've back to where I were before, with better understanding of myself and others.