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Welcome to my virtual home. This is a little private space for me to put my thoughts and share my feelings since 2005. Due to my wide range of interests, there are perhaps too many tags. I would explain some of the less obvious tags:

"About Life" is really about how I have been pondering about life and what enlightenments and paradigm shifts I had experienced.

"About Psi" contains most topics about happiness, optimism vs pessimism,
confidence, comparison, pride and prejudice and other psychological aspects.

"About Logical Thinking" is about my own way of interpretating and explaining
certain issues, aiming to debunk (or create?) superficialness of them.

"About Ideology" is about my thoughts on big concepts like freedom, justice,
fairness in society and religion.

"About Society" is more about my observations about the society, often through interactions with different peoples.

"My Country" reveals my frustration, critics and hope
on my homeland - Malaysia.

"My Little Pieces" has more short posts though mostly are written in Mandarin.

While I do have some posts on book reviews and business, I am planning to
separate them into author-specific and content-specific blogs. Stay tuned.

Enjoy your reading!

Wednesday, November 9, 2005

得与失

时常在想,究竟什么是得,究竟什么是失。
得到了希望得到的,快乐,
失去了不想失去的,悲伤,
有得必有失,快乐和悲伤必然掺杂在一起。

不在乎生活中的某些事情,可是这种不在乎,是因为习以为常?还是因为不曾拥有?会不会因为忽然失去或忽然拥有而变得很在乎?

很在乎生活中的某些事情,可是这种很在乎,是因为主观欲望?还是因为客观利益?会不会因为忽然失去或忽然拥有而变得不在乎?

匆匆,忙忙,失去了很多,也得到很多……
失去了手机,得到了珍惜;
失去了电脑,得到了教训;
失去了平静,得到了起伏;
得到了快乐,失去了满足;
得到了休息,失去了冲劲;
得到了成长,失去了天真;

有时难免会惋惜得不到某些东西,有时难免会遗憾失去了某些东西,可是,谁又知道惋惜不是一种失?遗憾不是一种得?本来无一物,何处惹尘埃。执着与放下,介意与释怀,皆在一念间。

无穷的去追求得,就成自私;无尽的去追求失,就成颓废;悠悠一生,得的失的,数之不尽,分之不清。或许人生,在乎的,不是得与失,而是在历经得失之后,依然坚持不停地往前走,仍旧持续不断地向前冲。

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