母亲节

      “母亲节快乐。”

      “噢，我都忘记佐。其实，日日都系母亲节。”

       怎么母亲说话有梁静茹的味道？哈哈。十几年来第一次和母亲说母亲节快乐，另外一次好像是在小学时折过一颗心。

 

       “煮多点菜吃？”

       “两个人吃得几多，等你返来才煮多点。”

       “等我回来都父亲节了。”

       “到时正出去啦。”

 

       是我的家庭传统含蓄，还是我传统含蓄，还是我们都传统含蓄，我已不自知，只在共同感受那份平淡、恬静、闲适。

 

      “香港中文大学寄来唔知乜学习英文的信。”

      “这么奇怪？不懂是什么回事。”

      “我去揾一揾，爸爸同你倾哈啦。”

 

      “俊霖啊，最近点啊？”

      “差不多咯。”

      “吃佐饭？”

      “而家甘早，没吃饭啦，哈哈。”

      “做工做成点？”

      “还好啦，写着report咯，不是很忙，老板下星期返中国。”

      “老板是中国人？”

      “尔，老板是指带我的工程师，上面当然还有manager，还有其他engineer。”

      “最紧要记得学习。几时返来？”

      “6月8号还是9号吧，到时才定。”

      “9号夜车，10号到啦，返来tao一个礼拜，跟住返出去啦。”

      “噢，假期有拿课读书。”

      “假期自修好，唔好浪费晒时间，呢四年好重要，好好”

      “哈，不是自修，有老师教的。”

      “哦，系甘啦，卑返妈妈同你讲，拜拜啦？”

      “哦，拜拜。”

 

      “揾到啦，系什么谢谢什么学习英文甚么青衣。。。”

      “哦，青衣，那时我在香港教小学生读书的啦，但是教华文，不是叫英文。”

      “是啊，呢度写学习英文什么”

      “就是咯，我也不懂，应该是搞错了，他们有请教中文，也有请教英文的。没想到他们还会寄张东西过来，令我意外。”

      “收住当留念啦，唔错的留念。要去煮菜咯，唔同你倾啦？”

      “哦，母亲节快乐啦。”

      希望你也收住我的祝福当留念。

 

      只不过，工作学习又怎会烦扰我？

      风飘过，我的方向在哪？

火滚

      火滚！十年如一日，依旧是乱，国家无一刻有为。

      气毙！十年如一日，依旧是慌，个人无一刻能有为。

      倒啦，穿啦，以天文数字建造，外表金碧辉煌的布城，内部塌板漏水噼里啪啦地倒啦，穿啦。

      火了，火了，温和的首相难得发火了：“我都不知道他们在做什么？”

      好好先生居然发火，不由得脱帽致敬。自上而下，对于你手下的部长，副部长，政务次长，同志官僚，裙带承包商居然偷吃不抹嘴，以最愚笨的方式显露“背地里”狰狞的吞钱样，我深为同情。若不是你有先见之明严管媒体，恐怕坐椅会有一点难以忍受的动摇。没有被人民监督彻查揭发讨伐的后顾之忧，才能好好教育下属为官的精明之道--当以永续发展为前提，切勿涸泽而渔，焚林而猎，最好就是温水煮蛙偷搜偷刮。

 

      可惜如此愤激之语又有何用？黑暗，知道越多越痛苦。很想找一些国家的曙光，翻来覆去找寻文章，可惜徒劳。赞美都来自丁春秋徒弟之流，批判都来自落魄梁山的非法豪杰。2007既不是武侠年代，也不是封建古代，到底是一个什么年代啊？神伤，无奈狠下重笔，以慰籍疲累的心灵。

 

      朋党政治，任人唯亲，官官相护，滥权腐败，贪污垄断；
      种族政治，煽情挑衅，分化种族，误民愚民，统一思想；
      蜜糖政治，操控选举，滥划选区，诱骗选票，制造幽灵；

 

      破坏民主，腐化国会，偷换宪法，凌驾司法，滥用执法；
      恶法横行，打压自由，践踏人权，严控媒体，掩盖乱象；
      好大喜功，虚造繁荣，教育落后，治安败坏，人才外流。

      迟点好像要大选，经霆辉提醒记得注册为选民。对哦，我已23岁了。选举，我又能做什么呢？唯一能保证的是，直至把国阵拉下马来，我铁定不会投它，不是说反对党就是天使，而是不能继续让国阵作魔鬼。1957-2007，刚好50年，一个统治了国家50年，不曾被替换的的政党，不能不令你佩服。世界上没有一个民主国家有过如此的奇迹，有过如此完美的政党，此等的Malaysia Boleh如何能不让人叫好，简直可以被列入Guiness' World Record。

 

      有人说过：30岁之前不投反对党的人没良心；30岁之后不投国阵的人是笨蛋；趁我还没被熏陶成笨蛋前，暂时秀一秀我年轻的良心吧。

随想

累的时候容易涌现很多想法，尤其是负面的；但是不累的时候，想法总是稀有得可怜。随想。

当车灯从身后照来，我那长长的双腿已化成灰暗的两条长线，被淡黄的光线环绕着，向无尽头处延展。这就是我以后要走的人生，前途充满一片迷茫，尽管前面依稀有光，但路是灰暗的，是迷蒙的，直到我真正向前踏下另一步时，我才懂得地面究竟是平坦的，还是藏有窟窿的。时间就如身后强烈的灯光，不断催促我盲目地向前走，丝毫不给我喘息。唯有当着灯光不再，那灰暗的前路才会消失；但那时候，意即时间停滞，我也不复存在。社会就如环绕的光线，四处皆是光明却唯独我的前路是灰暗，表面显得如此平静，却让我无时无刻感受到被包围的压力。

于是我犹疑，只好止步不前。但一切，也没有变化。如果我能不受引力的牵引，如果我接受恶魔给与我翅膀离地的诱惑，我就可以脱离这个困境。可惜一者客观上不可能，一者主观上不可能。于是我犹疑，无奈向前跨进。走了好久，依然没有变化，唯一的感觉就是两脚还是紧贴着地。于是醒悟，该去意识的是此刻还走着，而不是下秒走去哪。于是继续再走，过了很久，发现就是身后光的强度有变化。于是醒悟，不是用脚单纯地前进，而是用心仔细地感受时间的快慢。于是继续再走，过了很久，发现环绕的光线逐渐暗淡。于是醒悟，指引方向的，不是周遭的光线，而是内心的光明。

Misconception

Recently my thought have been deeply occupied with the word "MISCONCEPTION" , emerged when I was confused over some characteristic of capacitor. I have found a website that explains a lot of other misconceptions about electronics, and surprisingly, I was struck immediately by its reasoning in such a fashion that I quickly threw away my original concepts which are wrong!

Those explanations are not great discoveries but arguments over words used and potential confusions caused by that. Of course science is not word, but it's convey through language. We may get the correct understanding at first, but eventually it may be eroded by theh repetition of usage of improper words.

Let's have few examples:

i) Current flow to, Current flow from, bla bla bla. It's universally known that current == flow rate of charge, so how could a flow rate flows? By using this phrase again and again, one fine day we may finally incline to think that there's such substance call current flow through the circuit. Similar concept applies to power flow.

ii) Charge up the capacitor, discharge the capacitor. By these words, we may possibly imagine that charge up == some charges flow in cap and stored inside, and discharge == charges fade away from cap. But think of this, a neutral caa has as muc charge as a "charged" cap. The multiple meanings of a word may create confusion here. "Charge up“ = break charge neutrality and impose a imbalance between plates.

iii) What is electricity? You can spot electricity in many places, which could mean a range of meanings. But tracing it back to person who started to use this word, electricty means charge.

I think I couldn't explain better than original site do. And though its informality and unpopulated view did make me doubt its correctness, its reasoning made me first doubt what I've learnt. In some way I think it really help me to get a better basic understanding or alas, reinforce what I know before.

http://amasci.com/ele-edu.html

And it triggered me to continue to search for misconceptions in other areas. By human nature, we tend to take things for granted. We are more inclined to think that we are surrounded by "truth" and having pleasure in believing it, not willing to open our eyes until we suddenly realized that we are as stupid as monkey.

MISCONCEPTION about Evolution: http://www.talkorigins.org/faqs/faq-misconceptions.html

MISCONCEPTION about Astronomy: http://www.astronomy.org/astronomy-survival/misconcp.html

MISCONCEPTION about HIV & AIDS: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/HIV_and_AIDS_misconceptions

MISCONCEPTION about Sex: http://www.nebilove.net/overcoming%20common%20misconceptions%20about%20sex.htm

MISCONCEPTION about Islam: http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/notislam/misconceptions.html

Suddenly was overwhelmed by the contradictions in "facts" and belief. Of course ideas aren't necassary wrong if it's been labelled misconception, and not necessary right if misconception is lablled against opposite ones, the word "misconception" alarms me to shake off my predominant thoughts. I may end up in the endless struggle of defining which one is real misconception if my reasoning is not strong, but throughout the thinking process, I believe that my eyes could only get clearer bit by bit. Suddenly thought of demystification of powers, society bla bla bla, sociological lessons learnt when I was exchanged to CUHK. It excites me so much to have thrown away so many wrong concepts, yet it hurts me so much to swallow so many "hard" facts.

AFter round and round of exposures, I guess now I tend to believe there is more falsehood than truth, due to both external and internal factors. Who believes intuitively that heavier object fall as fast as lighter object? Hence I shouldn't take truth to be granted, to believe that it could be easily obtained. Somemore outside Science, truth may not exist but misconceptions roam for certain. Perhaps I should learn things by getting to know misconceptions and common pitfalls first. Ignorance is not bliss. One day I shall pay the price for being ignorant.

And, before you read on misconception about something, know the definition of it first.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Misconception

Misconception = A concept that is objectively false but it's believed by a person.

A funny FACT is that:

Misrepresentation of a concept is not a misconception but may produce a misconception. Some purposely use misrepresentation to produce these misconceptions to achieve goals, like politicians. ^_^

朋友

打transcriping打到有点头晕脑涨，休息了一下，刚想要去睡的时候有个很久没聊天的朋友MSN我，于是赶走了睡意聊了一会。或许是深夜宁静的气氛触动了夜猫子的神经，或许是那罐啤酒（懒惰下楼去装水+ 放在那很久没喝）的酒精作祟，睡意也暂时搁置了。如此难得的夜晚，我倒不该就如此躺下去浪费掉得对吧？（但实际上是在浪费时间吧，还有transcription的手尾，IA report等等等，等着我去做。。。）

 

      首先抽空去看了看朋友们的Blogs，然后再回到自己的。对于朋友这个词，你会联想起什么？小学到中学的老朋友、大学各式各样的朋友、交换留学认识的朋友、笔友等，当你逐一逐一去画回他们的脸，记回共同的事，八卦一些近况，你会联想起什么？我是一个很喜欢收藏过去的人，所以才会曾经写下“朋友不会永远相聚在一起，但会永远记得相聚那一刻”，至今仍然很喜欢这句子。记得有朋友轻松地和我说过：哈哈，朋友嘛，无论多久没见面，都不会生疏地啦。他是生活比较随意，很喜欢和人谈话的人。有个朋友认为，只要曾经是朋友，就会当成一世的朋友。他是很喜欢和人谈话的人。也有个朋友，会把‘朋友’区分为‘朋友’和‘认识’，即便是曾经很亲密的朋友，如果真得过了一段很久的时间，也会把他从‘朋友’区中挪去‘认识’区。但他也是一个很喜欢和人谈话的人。你，心中对朋友的想法，又是怎么样的呢？

 

      个人觉得，朋友之间维系靠感觉，每一段联系都会因为不同的事、物、人交杂酝酿出一种独特的感觉。当你和很久没见的朋友联系时，你第一个寻找的或许就是那份对你而言熟悉的感觉，尽管彼此的容貌、经历、想法或许都已变，但彼此的交谈、举止、态度仿佛还是会牵引回去像以往一般，那分熟悉的感觉。当然，这感觉不一定都是令人如沐春风的，正如酒的品质也会因酝酿的过程和时间而有优劣之分。单凭谈话和简单的举止就可以洞悉彼此心中想法的，自然是上等佳酿；交谈和相处愉快，未必懂得彼此想法但仍会迁就包容的，自然也是好酒；交谈限于某种课题的，或出于保守、或出于懒惰、或出于忙碌等，尽管不是佳酿，好歹也是一瓶啤酒，兴来时喝还算爽快；至于联系只在于见面打招呼，Hi-bye只为大家还依稀记得彼此的脸孔的，就只好列为劣酒了。

 

      但很多时候，决定这个区别的，决定这个酝酿过程的，是彼此交集时的第一印象和后续交谈。倘若已经设定好了在一个酒槽里，能否转换就要看彼此的意愿了。有的人欢迎，有的人乐意，有的人懒惰，有的人抗拒。

 

      不会害怕去结交朋友，也不会主动把朋友降级，但总是很难升级，或许是因为在交谈课题上，比较厉害自我设限，也比较倾向于聆听吧~

 

      但，无论怎么样，还是这句话吧“朋友不会永远相聚在一起，但会永远记得相聚那一刻”。

 

      就把三首都是那么动人的“朋友”送给所有的朋友吧！终于可以睡觉了，刚刚下了夜雨，气候凉爽，应该很好睡，但可怜我的衣服又要湿淋淋地被冷风吹虐了。

 

    谭咏麟

    繁星流動　和你同路
    從不相識開始心接近
    默默以真摯待人

    ＃人生如夢　朋友如霧
    難得知心幾經風暴
    為著我不退半步　正是你

   ＋遙遙晚空點點星光息息相關
    你我那怕荊棘鋪滿路
    替我解開心中的孤單　是誰明白我
    情同兩手一起開心一起悲傷
    彼此分擔總不分我或你
    你為了我　我為了你
    共赴患難絕裡　緊握你手　朋友

   

    周华健

 

    这些年 一个人   
    风也过 雨也走   
    有过泪 有过错   
    还记得坚持甚麽  

    真爱过 才会懂   
    会寂寞 会回首   
    终有梦 终有你 在心中   

    朋友一生一起走   
    那些日子不再有   
    一句话 一辈子   
    一生情 一杯酒   

    朋友 不曾孤单过   
    一声朋友 你会懂   
    还有伤 还有痛   
    还要走 还有我  

 

    无印良品

 

    谁能够划船不用桨
    谁能够扬帆没有风向
    谁能够离开好朋友
    没有感伤
    我可以划船不用桨
    我可以扬帆没有风向
    但是朋友啊
    当你离我远去
    我却不能不感伤

废话

口头上说废话的能力远比国兴逊色，我更擅长乱作文章，在字里行间信口开河。正因为尚在象牙塔内，所以总是有此闲情（同义：无聊）去乱吐象牙。实际上这不过是一种消遣，有时稍微有些意义，当更多时在互相矛盾；有时作为情绪抒发，但更多为把自己当成一个主题，又捧又辱又赞又弹，盖现实中不该常以自己为中心，所以总得有个空间是属于自己的，以自我为中心。缺点是自说自话极可能陷入精神崩溃，优点是舞文弄笔即使是废话连篇也会运用到文字。

冷酷

有时候觉得自己内心有着极其残忍冷酷的一面。

证据一：不花钱买气受。如果经济菜饭的Aunty夹菜时很吝啬，明明夹了八条还硬生生在我面前把两条放回去，我从此再也不会“帮衬”。如果煮炒的Aunty服务态度嚣张，脸比乞丐还臭却自以为不可一世高高在上唯我独尊，我从此再也不会“帮衬”。我会以拒绝光顾，恶毒诅咒和散播谣言尝试去减少档主的生意，让他越早关门大吉越好。因为我相信，他没有存活在商业世界里的原因和价值。

证据二：为小事偏激固执。实际上通常不过是一件极其为普通或不起眼的小事，但可能在我心里却位置极重。譬如说：在地铁站内带着耳筒听歌的人，内心非常慷慨，冒着手机电量快速耗尽的危险，冒着小小耳膜承受高分贝轰炸随时失效的危险，总想和全车上的人分享其所好，通常是摇滚之类的。他们不是可怜得耳筒坏了两百年没钱去换一个新的，而是可怜别人没有音乐听，漫长旅途中甚是无聊，所以善心大发不吝分享。可惜我不能领会这些人的好意，总是以怨报德，每一次遇上他们的时候，心里总是得默默地诅咒他们千百轮，因为我觉得在这回事上众乐乐不如独乐乐，我心里有自己的弦律要聆听，没有空间去容纳和欣赏别的。而我实在想也想不明白，把声量调低有这么困难么？

证据三：幼稚淘气。小孩子要玩就玩，要闹就闹，完全是随心随意的。很多时候我觉得我心里还有孩童那份稚气，总是要做就做，要停就停，老实说对其他人来说是很残忍的，因为他们的意见、感受就会被完全搁置，忽略和罔顾。虽然这种事情发生的机率比较小，但我知道我是有可能达致绝对残忍，绝情冷酷，连回望同情的眼神也吝于施。。。但愿这种事不会再发生第三次，在中学我已经结了两个希望从此不会再碰面的仇人。

寓言

看过的寓言不多，但有一则觉得很有意思，看过以后就永藏在心。

话说从前，有一个小孩很喜欢到海边玩，结识了一只海鸥，彼此都玩得很开心，快乐的时光就这样一只维持。小孩的父亲看到小孩和海鸥的关系这么好，就欺骗小孩去抓海鸥回来，打算卖出去赚一笔。机灵的海鸥（不懂为什么心灵感应到小孩这一次的动机有别）于是便只在空中盘旋，不下来和小孩玩，小孩很失望地回家，然后从此海鸥就没有和小孩玩了。

如果现实中人也像寓言中的海鸥就好了，随其所好任意结识朋友，耍乐欢笑；然后在罪恶或灾难来临之前靠神来的智慧避开。这样的话，他就不需要在与陌生人交往的过程中带有戒备，也不会害怕因为疏忽而陷自己于危险，也不会因为愚蠢而给罪恶机会张牙舞爪。这样的世界，就会趋向更美好了。

周末

难得的周末即将要结束咯，等待着的又是星期一的工作天。老实说实习剩下的期间也不多，只有六个星期。很快就要交IA report，但心里老是很不乐意地写，无聊的废话我喜欢写，但略带技术的我却很厌烦写，真是矛盾。

这个周末，打了一次壁球，看了一场球赛，写了两篇垃圾文章，寄了四张明信片，回了一些email，看了一些小说和物理，就这样结束咯。虽然我做事都是靠易消的劲，但好像很喜欢一心多用，是典型的花心么~

Rubbish Mix

Just a rubbish mix or sum up of this week basically.

IC Spider and Heat Blower

After I came up with the almost-complete schematics, I need to put all the spiders (ICs) back to the PCB. And again, I proved myself to be an absolute idiot by failing to put the biggest spider with 28 knee-down legs. Stupid surface mount technology, I cursed. Struggling in between the incapability of putting it back and the must of putting it back, I ended up blowing the PCB again and again until the surfaces turned black, the pads dropped, the spider' legs broke - the perfect indication of OVERCOOK. Aih....I just couldn't be more constructive, could I? Or perhaps that time I was too hungry and mindless?

So, again I had to dig up my courage to tell my super kind-hearted small boss of this disaster. It wasn't a good feeling after all. If I were him, I must be wondering am I utilizing his kindness as incentive to breed errors? And luckily, he's still the same kind person who just acknowledged my mistake and didn't say anything further. Now I must let myself regret of spoiling his private board, that badly. Sigh~

Electronic engineer and electronic hobbyist

I was puzzled. Capacitor blocks DC current, but then why we still use DC to charge capacitor arr? Without using my logic, straigh away I seeked help from Google by typing: "Capacitor blocks DC". To my astonishment, the first link in wiki provided the answer of my question. Alas, I forgot the step input and the charging characteristic of capacitor. It's after capacitor same voltage as source then it blocks current when there is no more change in voltage. The culprit: formula of capacitance impedance whereby if you treat DC = AC with 0 frequency, (which is not really true...) you would get infinite impedances and current wouldn't flow at all. And I neglected the formula is based purely on i) sinusoid ii) ac steady state condition iii) dc steady state condition.

I think I always have difficulty in understanding capacitor, transistor, op-amp and bla bla bla. I still remembered last time when high school teacher first taught op-amp, I was really puzzled how come a device that draws no current can amplify signal? How fake is it? Doesn't it contradicts with the Kirchoff Law of Current? Only till 2nd year in university I realized that the op-amp is powered up by two other pins, and the "no current go in thing" is just ideal op-amp characteristic, that it's because of the complex circuit inside designed purposely to make this characteristic.

If I didn't understand that time, why didn't I ask my teacher? Perhaps I was too stupid not to ask question. Why am I so adamant. still?

Hence I went to read on some other misconceptions of electronics, and I suddenly found myself back to those old school times, when I feel satisfied and happy after getting know the "truth" and understand it. That's when I thought I was fond of understanding physics, just pure sciences at the basic level. I think I am too easy to be satisfied and lack the drive to further my understanding deeper and deeper. Yet I thought myself are keen in physics, and often I proclaims so. Doesn't it just seem contradicting?

As compared to those electronic hobbyists, who really take up the profession because of their interests, I feel very ashamed of myself. Ya, I would get a electronic engineer sooner or later, second upper class at least unless I encounter misfortune; but how much more electronic stuff I know than those hobbyists? Nothing at all. Practically I am unworthy to be compared to them. And is it too late to turn myself to be electronic hobbyist? Nope. But is that what I really want? I need to find more fun in it, to ignite the turn.

Language

I would never thought that I could write so long in English. And yes, I am writing in English at present more and more because for the really first time in my life I could express my ideas that well in English. Though there are still many grammatical erros, but I don't care. I just want to immense myself in the joy of commanding English - the language I once hated most, I once feared most throughout my primary and lower secondary school times.

But if you ask me go back to those days, and write an essay given a topic, I would still stuck. Because that's not really what I want to say. It's like forcing me to vomit out words by words, sentences by sentences, without any true feeling inside. So I starts to wonder, does these essays practice really help a student to learn how to write? Without much exposure and enlightment, what's there so many feelings and thoughts to be put in lines?

Though I was ashamed of extremely weak in English that time, I always against my parents' will of persuading me to take up tuition or express class in holidays. I boasted that I would excel in English if I feel myself want to, without help from others; and if you forced me to go study while I didn't like it, I wouldn't improve either. Very arrogant indeed. Where did my pride came from arr? So poor yet so boastful? So funny, :)

劲

越来越觉得自己做事其实是靠一股劲，而不是那么理智的。一旦劲消了就很难再勉强做下去，只有过了一段期间后，等劲再起时再冲刺。学期刚开始不久很有热诚地去学韩文，学不久后劲消了，然后又冒起热城去看小说。正如之前我突然抛下这里，然后突然又想回来这里，我觉得自己越来越难预测了。唯一可以肯定的是，再过一段期间，我又会重新埋头在各本韩文的自学书中，惟不知这段期间是多长。

我就像是一阵来去无踪的风，兴起时激昂地绕着风眼旋转，劲消时冷漠地化为尘埃停滞。这种热冷骤变，差距是否有点太过呢？

正邪好坏

霆辉突然间收到学弟的电话，原来他们进了辩论决赛需要帮助。老实说，在过了这么久之后，在没有任何预测下，获知他们进了决赛蛮令我们惊讶！立场有点不讨好：正不能胜邪，或许正因为如此才突然间想到找我们吧。尽管大家都有点忙，心理可能也有点逃避，但从来没有怀疑过必须给与帮助，毕竟这是我们曾经长期苦心经营的活动，于是二话不说彼此就投入了讨论和思考，尽量抽一点时间为他们设立架构，删改稿件。

据说他们在决赛的表现压过对方，但以差一票栽在裁判的手上。似乎裁判认为我们没有誓死捍卫邪恶力量，没有以身作则宣告自己道德破产邪恶至极，所以觉得他们不够绝，或者说立论错误。忍不住地叹息，这不是先入为主么？如果裁判一定要以自己对破题的见解强加于双方身上，不以场上的争锋交接来判定胜负的话，倒不如去看傀儡表演好了。即便我们采用他们的立场，他们也一定又会另有意见，譬如世界如果真的如此邪恶，为什么世界末日还没到来等等……说白一些，就是裁判在内心和辩论员辩论去了，而不是看对方是否有作出相应的反驳。这简直是狗屁不通，论题如果没有矛盾就不会被拿出讨论啦。

尽管如此，还是很庆幸听到他们进到了决赛，并且打出了不错的表现。胜负不是一切，从来裁判就未必一定懂得什么是辩论，懂得怎样去欣赏辩论。听说之前居然还有裁判说他们自由辩轮流站起来有点机械化，真是愚昧之极。但以后前景依然暗淡，辩论队人数一如往常人丁单薄，或许辩论在这个电脑虚拟世界早已成为一门过时的活动。而且联系也似乎出了问题，虽然说我们都身在远处，也早已退隐不管，不会主动去过问，但依旧欢迎求助。

回想起来，有时自己也是搞不懂，七年的辩论，究竟带来什么坏处？好处比较显而易见，但坏处很难去整理。或许就是过程中见证太多的人事纠纷并且和曾经一度尊敬的老师对抗成仇人？哈哈，事实上，涉及辩论之后究竟比在涉及辩论之前，人变得更好一些还是更坏一些，人生得到更多还是失去更多……有时，我会去怀疑。诚然，这种怀疑的精神也是从辩论这培养回来的习惯，哈哈……

Culture & Mentality

Culture

A friend from Hong Kong came few days ago and yesterday I "sort of" brought her around. I wondered is that call "bringing around" because she had almost traveled all the tourist spots before yesterday, and most importantly, there aren't many distintive differences between Singapore and Hong Kong except culture. Hong Kong chinese, Singaporean chinese, Malaysian chinese, all with different cultures. Inside the same cultural group nobody share the exact identical personality. Environment, education, experience all play a part in shaping one's personality. If we can accept people are different, we can accept cultures are different. Things are meant to be unique to render the world colourful and harmoneous but not mono. But how often can a human, obsessed predominantly by his/her own way of thinking, be disposed to admire strength not found in ourselves but exposed in differences?

Mentality

I wonder should I blame it to the "culture" among ourselves. It's not "kia-su" mentality but rather form of teasing among friends, perhaps in companion with slight envy. And in the past I "should-be" among the major criminal that found guilty of teasing friends for hardworking. It's just too natural for me to tease a friend: Wah, so hardworking ar? Wah, so fast do tutorial ar? when I saw them studying. Sincerely I didn't mean to discourage them to study, it's just too natural as this kind of behaviour is circulating among ourselves. If people tease me like this I probably would reply with smile or another teasing, and continue to study. But only after recent strong protest from two strongmen I finally realized not everyone behaves like me and they really care about what others say and would feel embarass to continue study.

Aiyo, then I die lor...for becoming a culprit of discouraging others to study. Damn damn. Didn't mean for that but anyway... It's true even it doesn't not mean for discouraging, it's still far from encouraging to study. So, I have to change my behaviour from this moment on. Next time you won't see tease you on hardworking (on other things perhaps), but you will hear :"Oh begitu rajin bagus! Belajar pandai pandai la~" Does that sound more supportive? Haha~

Good Friday, Good Holiday

Tiredness & Sleep

I thought I am actually getting on the right track of completely used to working life, with time adjusted to be most productive in all areas. Sleep at about 12.00am, alarm ring at 6.30am and off, wake up at 6.40am, take bus, sleep in mrt, and finally reach company in the range of 5-15 minutes late. Surely it's not enough sleep for a person who need at least 8 hours of sleeping time. Though physically tired but mentally still fresh to do work. Just too bad last Friday I fell asleep on the chair in front of the computer while I was reading some application notes. And my nice team leader told me on Monday: Hey! Your boss caught you sleeping during work...Are you ok? Recently what makes you feel that tired? TERRIFIED. Fear overrun me. It was just like found guilty of doing something bad which you don't really realize. How come I don't know that he know I fell asleep? Finally I have to try to tackle the circuit design given by big boss, which I was felt too hard and lazy to do before. If not I will die, I know that. Then I put in some effort, went to discuss with him and said sorry. The truth is that he didn't see that, other manager complained about me. Hoo....WORST SCENARIO! No wonder he didn't wake me up and scold me. But the imej I left in his mind couldn't be worst. And I felt I have also betrayed the good will of my nice team leader, by putitng him into a position of not taking good care of me and giving me appropriate work. Just worst repay he could get for being nice to me. I start to feel that I would have a tougher environment and higher pressure to live and breathe.

FYP

After all the past worries, finally I got a fyp project and settled down. Will be working on dc-dc converter with cher huat together, and eddie also under the same prof. I would expect a very tough life ahead but hope we can get through it succesfully and colorfully. I don't really have a particular interest in that project. I feel the same for all analog signal design project. As long as I could learn a lot of useful things out of it, I would be satisfied because it proves that I would have overcame fear of incompetence and lack of ability. Sometimes I don't really understand where my grades come from, because only through recent practical exposures I REALIZE what is EE. V, I, R, C are there to let you control to achieve what you want. V is potential difference --> ground have to be always connected, Signal = ?, Noise = ?, finally know how to use oscilloscope, dmm; finally start to believe transistor's existence and etc. I think I am very slow to REALIZE thigns especially in learning, like I only REALIZE the real existence of trigonometri in F5 although sin-cos was taught in F3, REALIZE real existence of matrix and integration = sum of small parts last year when I was using MATLAB although it were long taught in Maths since secondary high school. I understand thing just for the sake of understanding, so am I actually smart or dumb?

Work & Future

Guess all of us that are about this age has already started to imagine what would be their future live as the nostalgic university life is going to end soon. 1 years+ of busy work ahead is no longer than short period of travels. It's time to dig out my heart and see what words are stored inside. INTEREST? WORK? MONEY? The boundaries between each are blurring and couldn't be differentiated as clearly as I wish. Crystal clear live objective is somewhere outside the known charts. I had a very long and happy conversation with my colleague, a middle-aged Sarawak guy who is currently PR. He went through many more hurdles than I had, and we had discussed on some issues. He shared his experiences to me. When you were first graduated you would think that field is of your zeal, you would definitely devote your energy and spirits into it tirelessly. And you persisted for few years. After that things started to change. What's still keep you to work eventually would only be one thing: MONEY $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$. Though I tried to argue that even you may lost your ultimate interest, you couldn't hate that work. I don't believe one could continue doing something that he/she actually hates it, just like one couldn't live with someone that he/she hates to live with, not even one second. And he agreed.

Had he lost his soul by condemning himself to have only money in his eyes like those figures that are portrayed in comics? Certainly no. He didn't have such a thought before he graduated. He went through more stages of life and he changed. It has led me to rush into such conclusion: it's not normal for a person who haven't graduated only emphasizes on $$, while it's not normal for a person after so many years of life don't emphasize on $$. Before I reach that stage, I wouldn't be certain that I will still be same as now. No way I could decide. Ya, it's true that from now on we should do everything by following our heart. But human is just so complex and easy to change. So it boils down to the ultimate basic question: Is what you choose now really of your interest? How sure are you? By repeating this question and forcing myself to answer would drive myself mad, hence I rather choose not to decide. No point to decide if I know there's not possible to decide, at this point of time. By reading the newspapers, you could find so many life stories of persons finally figure out what he/she want, after so years of life, after exposures to different areas, after successfully at least make livings independently. What I could do is to continuously search and observe.

Money

When you have money your hand starts to feel itchy, struggling to hold it and wish to persuade your heart to buy "utility" for yourself. Materialistic - Consumerism - Present modern world. I felt so strange that, I starts to deviant away from my normal self: from being a super stingy person (to buy things for myself) to someone who no longer really cares about spending. Because I am on IA and earning some money. I know I am heading into a dead end and I should stop and pull myself back. But that just explains how strong is the influence of real business world and how true is the greed of inner heart. Sometimes I feel lost in between holding and spending $$ on something. What's the true utility that I had bought? Do I purposely make myself feel blue and go buy something to cheat myself some happiness? And of the existing cheating and "strategy-driven" business environment, what thing you get is true? Ribena without Vitamin C, Haagen-Dazs== America company (smart foreign branding or foreign fancy psychological trap?), how many hard facts that I would still need to swallow to feel the virtualness of this world? Would you rather be ignorant but innocently happy, or informative but struggles to happy?

And perhaps, of the most disastrous thing what a man could do with $$ --> Buy sexual pleasure. I went with friends to eat chilli crabs in Geylang, where we passed by the red-light zone. It has been my second time to Geylang since 1st year FOC, and it's my second time to see prostitutes. I am not a hypocrite to say I am as pure as Monk and have a "clean" harddisk. But if sex is something pleasant in life to be enjoyed, I don't see a point of going for prostitute. The environment is so disgusting and full of dark elements: cigarettes, alcohols, dirtyness, underground... What are you paying? It's like pay to get yourself raped. Wonderfully stupid. But am I too innocent or what? Maybe only few % of guy of my age go, but certainly much much higher % of guy of middle-aged or old man go... And why? Is that really that enjoyable...I don't see the point. Really.

Emotion

Adults always wish to go back to their worryless childhood time, but all innocent childs grow up to adults with full range of human emotions. Is that because we started to think things in more perspectives? Is that because we get loaded with different tasks and relationships? Is that because we starts to feel what real life is? A child would never know why an adult would change his mood just for something minor in his/her eyes, an adult know what, why and how but just couldn't control it. Ups and downs, everyday. Sometimes I tend to have more worries when I am surrounded by happiness, because I know by the time I lost it, I would feel lost also deep into the heart. Sometimes I tend to smile for small things when I am not in a good mood, because I know I need it to avoid collapse. Is this balancing fun? No idea.

Today is actually holiday. Should I say I write this because I want to or because I am bored and got nothing else better to do? Perhaps writing too much would makes myself even more complex. To avoid being eaten up by pride, I shall need to read on more things to counter balance it. Why can't life be a bit more simpler? Yawn~