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Welcome to my virtual home. This is a little private space for me to put my thoughts and share my feelings since 2005. Due to my wide range of interests, there are perhaps too many tags. I would explain some of the less obvious tags:

"About Life" is really about how I have been pondering about life and what enlightenments and paradigm shifts I had experienced.

"About Psi" contains most topics about happiness, optimism vs pessimism,
confidence, comparison, pride and prejudice and other psychological aspects.

"About Logical Thinking" is about my own way of interpretating and explaining
certain issues, aiming to debunk (or create?) superficialness of them.

"About Ideology" is about my thoughts on big concepts like freedom, justice,
fairness in society and religion.

"About Society" is more about my observations about the society, often through interactions with different peoples.

"My Country" reveals my frustration, critics and hope
on my homeland - Malaysia.

"My Little Pieces" has more short posts though mostly are written in Mandarin.

While I do have some posts on book reviews and business, I am planning to
separate them into author-specific and content-specific blogs. Stay tuned.

Enjoy your reading!

Tuesday, February 14, 2006

情人节

情人节,是玫瑰花和巧克力的日子。情人节,也是忽然间出现很多情侣的日子。如果你是单身,在这个特别的日子看到周围都是一对对情侣,你会有什么感觉?寂寞?叹息?羡慕?妒忌?哈哈,触景生情,相信这是正常反应吧!
记得中学看到情侣拍拖时我偶尔也有这种因景而生的孤单,但现在我却觉得这种感觉不好。改变我想法的,是因为看到很多对情侣分手的例子。当一对情侣分手,两人的悲痛程度往往大到连旁观者都觉得有点窒息。既然我为别人分手感到难过,那么我该为别人在一起感到开心。
一对情侣的结合多少需要一点缘分,如果说缘分是一件美好的事情,那么看到别人在一起就应该感到快乐。因为看到情侣就等于看到缘分,看到缘分就等于看到美好。既然看到美好,为什么不应该快乐呢?逻辑很简单吧,呵呵~
触景生情的寂寞虽然是正常反应,但是并非是件好事。当你因寂寞而走向羡慕、走向妒忌的时候,你就会越来越贴近负面价值。如果你能把这种感觉转化成对情侣的祝福,不是更好吗?至少你心里会更好受,至少你心里会更光明。寂寞,是基于对爱的渴望和追求。既然是要追求爱,就要从真善美开始着手,怎么可能从负面价值开始呢?
下一次,当你见到一对情侣路过的时候,请从心里给他们给予他们最真挚的祝福。别让自己给寂寞吞没哦,让羡慕和妒忌见鬼去吧,哈哈!

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