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Welcome to my virtual home. This is a little private space for me to put my thoughts and share my feelings since 2005. Due to my wide range of interests, there are perhaps too many tags. I would explain some of the less obvious tags:

"About Life" is really about how I have been pondering about life and what enlightenments and paradigm shifts I had experienced.

"About Psi" contains most topics about happiness, optimism vs pessimism,
confidence, comparison, pride and prejudice and other psychological aspects.

"About Logical Thinking" is about my own way of interpretating and explaining
certain issues, aiming to debunk (or create?) superficialness of them.

"About Ideology" is about my thoughts on big concepts like freedom, justice,
fairness in society and religion.

"About Society" is more about my observations about the society, often through interactions with different peoples.

"My Country" reveals my frustration, critics and hope
on my homeland - Malaysia.

"My Little Pieces" has more short posts though mostly are written in Mandarin.

While I do have some posts on book reviews and business, I am planning to
separate them into author-specific and content-specific blogs. Stay tuned.

Enjoy your reading!

Monday, February 27, 2006

离合

爱情里的离离合合,所为何事?合的时候甜甜密密,离的时候隔阂重重,所为何事?合则来,不合则分,为何走的时候不能潇洒放下,为何离的时候没把最后的祝福送给对方?是因为看漏了眼遇错了人?是因为不能原谅别人的错误?是因为不能承认自己犯了错?是因为大家都不成熟都犯了错?还是因为爱的反面本来就是冷漠?
如果爱情的结局会让一个人变得自私,那当初是什么唤醒爱情的开始的呢?在唤醒爱情的同时,是否所有的善与恶也同时间被引进来了呢?有的人因为爱情变得比天使还美丽,有的人却因为爱情变得比恶魔还丑恶,要如何引导这个方向?看两个人的际遇?靠两个人的智慧?
爱情是盲目的,是一个现实还是一个警惕?或许,爱情只是让人经历成长的一个阶段?爱情是人生珍贵的一部分,但是否可以成为人生的全部?可能不同的人会有不同的价值观,但无论怎样,既然是人生的一部分,就要好好经营,别在爱情的迷雾中迷失了自己,进而拖累了你爱的人。
爱情是盲目的,但进入爱情之后就不能再盲目了,对吧?只有用心和智慧去经营的情侣才能完成这长跑,对吧?让爱意在不断滋长的同时,大家在各自的人生道路上也获得成长,对吧?
(静夜思索,一个爱情的旁观者平静地尝试寻找爱情的真谛。无论找不找到,都要做好自己的人,请别忘了活在当下,笑看人生。)

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