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Welcome to my virtual home. This is a little private space for me to put my thoughts and share my feelings since 2005. Due to my wide range of interests, there are perhaps too many tags. I would explain some of the less obvious tags:

"About Life" is really about how I have been pondering about life and what enlightenments and paradigm shifts I had experienced.

"About Psi" contains most topics about happiness, optimism vs pessimism,
confidence, comparison, pride and prejudice and other psychological aspects.

"About Logical Thinking" is about my own way of interpretating and explaining
certain issues, aiming to debunk (or create?) superficialness of them.

"About Ideology" is about my thoughts on big concepts like freedom, justice,
fairness in society and religion.

"About Society" is more about my observations about the society, often through interactions with different peoples.

"My Country" reveals my frustration, critics and hope
on my homeland - Malaysia.

"My Little Pieces" has more short posts though mostly are written in Mandarin.

While I do have some posts on book reviews and business, I am planning to
separate them into author-specific and content-specific blogs. Stay tuned.

Enjoy your reading!

Saturday, February 25, 2006

快乐

究竟什么是快乐?
茶余饭后闲话人短,是庸俗的快乐;
朋友相聚共欢一堂,是热闹的快乐;
辛劳付出获得成果,是激昂的快乐。
心境轻松无忧无虑,是自在的快乐;
在乎的少计较的少,是宽大的快乐;
不看理由不问原因,是纯朴的快乐。
快乐无处不在,但悲伤也没有消失。可能是因为没有了悲伤,没人分辨得出什么是快乐。或许悲伤的意义在于让人认识快乐的重要。可惜在悲伤面前,庸俗、热闹、激昂的快乐,浓烈而不持久;自在、宽大、纯朴的快乐,清淡却不消逝。人一生最快乐的应该是童年,因为那时的快乐是最纯朴的。到了成年,纯朴的快乐早已渐渐消失,取而代之的是庸俗的、热闹的、激昂的快乐。要到哪去找回那赤子之心?哦,其实也不难,只要你随时随地都开怀大笑就行了。做不到这么天真?那只好退而求其次,去找寻宽大的快乐吧,只要你在乎的少计较的少就行了。这样子做人生没意义?那好吧,你先去寻找人生的意义过后才回来寻找快乐吧!
一路上,就让我快快乐乐地走过吧!不在乎前面是泥泞还是平地,不计较天气是放晴还是多雨。看到悲伤的花朵就把它摘下来,提醒自己要快乐;遇到快乐的果实就把它收起来,增加自己的快乐。嘿,我的快乐,你躲去哪里了?

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