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Welcome to my virtual home. This is a little private space for me to put my thoughts and share my feelings since 2005. Due to my wide range of interests, there are perhaps too many tags. I would explain some of the less obvious tags:

"About Life" is really about how I have been pondering about life and what enlightenments and paradigm shifts I had experienced.

"About Psi" contains most topics about happiness, optimism vs pessimism,
confidence, comparison, pride and prejudice and other psychological aspects.

"About Logical Thinking" is about my own way of interpretating and explaining
certain issues, aiming to debunk (or create?) superficialness of them.

"About Ideology" is about my thoughts on big concepts like freedom, justice,
fairness in society and religion.

"About Society" is more about my observations about the society, often through interactions with different peoples.

"My Country" reveals my frustration, critics and hope
on my homeland - Malaysia.

"My Little Pieces" has more short posts though mostly are written in Mandarin.

While I do have some posts on book reviews and business, I am planning to
separate them into author-specific and content-specific blogs. Stay tuned.

Enjoy your reading!

Monday, October 12, 2009

皮笑

这个世界,其实很好玩。和虚构的武侠世界一样,正派会有岳不群,魔教会有张无忌,若真正数起来,这世间何止千百派?


有时候,你可以从惯常的笑脸之外的只言片语,得知一个人内心比你更灰暗。笑脸于他,是生存的面具,更是调适内心的平衡木。你别看他幽默搞笑,其实他把别人看得很负面。一是唯我独尊的帝王优生派,二是唯恐不乱的悲观逃离派。他往往能放大你的短处,却珍惜不了你的长处;勉强看到你的能力,却看不到你的潜力。和这种人谈话其实很辛苦,因为他让你短暂地欢愉,却永远地沉沦。凭什么你把我看得如此负面?因为唯你独善?因为你已对世界绝望?

如果无条件地宽恕是人间最伟大的力量,因为它体现了人最大的善;那么无条件地猜忌就是最邪恶的力量,因为它体现了人最大的恶。就算笃信人性本恶,若要完成最后的救赎,不是靠自私地渴望天堂,而是要去相信人能向善,促进人间和善。

我觉得,真理在地心说被日心说推翻,人类不再以自我为中心的那一刻,就彰显了。

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